Thoughts ….

May 30, 2009 in Health, Home, Life, family, fitness, friends

Everything happens for a reason. Some things may seem like the reason for something else happening, where in fact these are just another stepping stone to take you to where you need to be. But where you need to be sometimes takes you by surprise. What may bring you happiness may not even be where it is that you will end up. But sometimes you have to go through moments of intense pain to get to that place of absolute bliss.

Just because you get married, does not mean that that is the person you are going to spend the rest of your life with. It may be that you are destined to spend the rest of your life alone, but if that is where you are destined to be, then who are we to complain or judge it.

Some people will look at you and say that they have fallen for you, where in fact they are just looking to grasp hold of something that they need in order to boost their own life. Most of the time they don’t even realise that they are doing it, and aren’t even aware of it until way after who they have fallen for has moved on or moved out.

It is sometimes difficult to tell the difference between when you have truly fallen in love with someone and when you just what to grasp onto them. We are all guilty of it at some point in our life. But for some people when you grasp hold of someone you end up falling in love with them anyway. But how do you know the difference? I for one can’t tell you. How many people have given up on their whole life for something only to find that it is wrong – at that point. Of course they have to go through that point to get to that point of absolute bliss.

Just remember – when you are feeling down – someone else is thinking of you. Someone will be thinking about how much you mean to them. And will be thinking that you changed their life for the better.